What Really Tempts Us? | Security, Approval, and Control

Most people think temptation is about doing bad things.But what if it’s deeper than that?What if temptation is really about the search for security, validation, control, comfort, or power?In this message from Matthew 4:1–11, Martin Chairez explores Jesus’ temptation in the wilderness and why those same struggles still shape modern life. Through the images of bread, the temple, and the mountain, we’re invited to examine what drives us, what forms us, and what kind of kingdom we’re actually building.Rather than choosing control or self-preservation, Jesus models a different way forward—one rooted in trust, surrender, and faithfulness.Whether you’re wrestling with purpose, identity, ambition, or simply trying to understand why certain patterns keep pulling at you, this message offers a thoughtful and deeply practical perspective.Chapters00:00 Welcome and Setup 01:07 Why Stay in Matthew 02:53 Why the Gospel Details Matter 05:09 Reading the Temptation Story 07:38 Kingdoms in Conflict 13:38 Why the Wilderness Matters 16:13 Temptation One: Bread 21:03 Temptation Two: The Temple 26:55 Temptation Three: The Mountain 31:49 What This Means for Us Today 36:10 God With Us 38:25 Communion Reflection and PrayerClick here to donate to the programClick here for more sermonsOC Church of Christ