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EPISODE · May 5, 2026 · 24 MIN

What To Do When People Won't Freaking Listen

from The Way You Show Up · host Kimberly Beam Holmes, PhD

Take the free assessment → https://kimberlybeamholmes.com/pies-assessment---------------------------------------------------You've said it once.You've said it twice.You've said it fifteen times over four months.And somehow, nothing changes.You're not crazy.You're just not being heard.I lived this recently. I told a coworker in January that we needed to cut a software that wasn't working. He agreed. Or so I thought. Fast forward to April and we're still having the same conversation.January. That's when we decided. January.In this video, I'm breaking down the three reasons people don't listen when you speak and three things you can actually do about it.Distraction.Different wiring.Lack of clarity.These three things are behind almost every "why won't they just listen to me" moment you've ever had.I'm also walking you through the DISC personality framework (my favorite tool for understanding how people process information differently) and why speaking louder has never once helped someone understand you better.The hard question isn't "why won't they listen?"The hard question is "am I being a person worth listening to?"That's the one that changes everything.I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.The Way You Show Up is for the high-achiever who is tired of "fine."We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health.If you want to save your marriage, go to Marriage Helper. If you want to master yourself and lead your legacy, stay here.New episodes every Thursday.Don't just exist. Show up.🔗 Website: https://kimberlybeamholmes.com🎥YouTube https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimberlybeamholmes

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Take the free assessment → https://kimberlybeamholmes.com/pies-assessment --------------------------------------------------- You've said it once. You've said it twice. You've said it fifteen times over four months. And somehow, nothing changes. You're not crazy. You're just not being heard. I lived this recently. I told a coworker in January that we needed to cut a software that wasn't working. He agreed. Or so I thought. Fast forward to April and we're still having the same conversatio...

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