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EPISODE · Sep 15, 2026 · 7 MIN

What to Do When You Don't Know What to Say to Your Estranged Child

from The Reconciled Relationships Podcast · host Sally Harris

Are you constantly wondering what to say to your estranged adult child? Maybe you've rewritten the same text five times, drafted an apology you're afraid to send, or keep searching for the perfect words that might finally fix the relationship. But what if the next right step isn't another text, letter, apology, or explanation? In this video, I'm sharing what to do instead. So many moms of estranged adult children get stuck trying to find the one thing they can say or do that will finally change everything. But there is no perfect sentence—and chasing the right words can keep you focused on an outcome you cannot control. Instead, we're talking about: Why the first right step may be inward, not outward The healing work that IS within your control Why boundaries can be gates instead of walls How to stop chasing and trying to force an outcome What it means to prepare faithfully for the relationship you hope to have Your job isn't to force reconciliation. It's to prepare faithfully—to become a healthier, more grounded version of yourself so that when the door does open, you're ready to walk through it. ❤️ READY FOR PERSONAL SUPPORT? If you're unsure what the next right step looks like in your specific situation, apply for a Heart-to-Heart Consultation with me. We'll talk privately about where you are, where you feel stuck, and what coaching might look like for you. 👉  https://www.sally-harris.com/H2Happ   BE A CALLER ON THE SALLY HARRIS SHOW email: [email protected]    EMPOWER MOM QUIZ: www.sally-harris.com/EmpowerMom    CONNECT WITH SALLY HARRIS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/sallyharriscoach/ FACEBOOK | https://www.facebook.com/coachsallyharris WEBSITE | https://www.sally-harris.com     

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