what women want? the gay boy epidemic, turning trauma into art + the films you have to see in 2026 with bella gallegos

this week on how sebbie c’s it, i’m joined by returning guest, longtime friend, and forever creative co-conspirator bella gallegos.we get into everything from dating burnout, male validation, and why women are suddenly obsessed with emotionally available (read: gay-coded) men — to how trauma shapes our art, friendships, and sense of self.we talk honestly about growing up religious, unlearning survival patterns, the difference between the male gaze vs the female gaze, and why personality + empathy will always clear looks-maxing.plus: our must-see films for 2026, movie dates as friendship love language, and why going to the cinema every week might actually save your soul.it’s thoughtful, unfiltered, a little chaotic, and very much giving “best friends on a couch with coke zero.”listen if you’re questioning dating culture, healing loudly, or just want to feel less alone while figuring it all out.follow us:@sebastiancail@_bellagallegos