What Writing Does After Loss

In this episode of The Psychology of Us, Professor RJ Starr reflects on grief following the death of his mother and examines loss as a structural event rather than a passing emotion. He explores how internal models of attachment recalibrate after disruption, why identity can feel destabilized, and how writing serves as a disciplined form of psychological integration. This conversation moves beyond spectacle and sentimentality to consider how coherence is rebuilt when something foundational changes.