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EPISODE · Apr 8, 2026 · 40 MIN

What You Didn’t Say Might Be Hurting Your Marriage | Guest: Scott Kedersha

from Marriage on the Daily · host Julie B.

What You Didn’t Say Might Be Hurting Your Marriage | Guest: Scott KedershaWhat if some of the biggest frustrations in your marriage aren’t about major issues—but the expectations you never talked about?In this episode of Marriage on the Daily, Julie Baumgartner sits down with author, speaker, and marriage leader Scott Kedersha to unpack the powerful—and often overlooked—impact of unspoken expectations.From finances and holidays to intimacy and spiritual leadership, Scott shares how every couple brings hidden assumptions into marriage—and how those unmet expectations can quietly lead to disappointment, conflict, and even doubt about the relationship itself.Together, they dive into:- Where our expectations actually come from (family, culture, personality, and more)- Why unmet expectations often lead to deeper frustration than we realize- The danger of assuming your spouse should “just know”- How ongoing conversations—not one-time talks—build stronger marriages- Practical rhythms like weekly check-ins that help couples stay aligned- Why prayer together can be one of the most powerful habits in your marriageIf you’re feeling disconnected, misunderstood, or stuck in the same patterns, this episode will help you bring hidden expectations into the light—and replace frustration with clarity and connection.Because strong marriages aren’t built on guessing… they’re built on intentional, honest communication.

What You Didn’t Say Might Be Hurting Your Marriage | Guest: Scott KedershaWhat if some of the biggest frustrations in your marriage aren’t about major issues—but the expectations you never talked about?In this episode of Marriage on the Daily, Julie Baumgartner sits down with author, speaker, and marriage leader Scott Kedersha to unpack the powerful—and often overlooked—impact of unspoken expectations.From finances and holidays to intimacy and spiritual leadership, Scott shares how every couple brings hidden assumptions into marriage—and how those unmet expectations can quietly lead to disappointment, conflict, and even doubt about the relationship itself.Together, they dive into:- Where our expectations actually come from (family, culture, personality, and more)- Why unmet expectations often lead to deeper frustration than we realize- The danger of assuming your spouse should “just know”- How ongoing conversations—not one-time talks—build stronger marriages- Practical rhythms like weekly check-ins that help couples stay aligned- Why prayer together can be one of the most powerful habits in your marriageIf you’re feeling disconnected, misunderstood, or stuck in the same patterns, this episode will help you bring hidden expectations into the light—and replace frustration with clarity and connection.Because strong marriages aren’t built on guessing… they’re built on intentional, honest communication.

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