What You're Carrying Is Crushing You | HLW Valentine's Day series: Episode 2

Send us Fan MailMany wives believe surrender feels hard because they’re resisting it.But what if surrender feels hard because you’ve been carrying responsibility that was never yours to hold?In this episode, Chelsey gently exposes how striving often disguises itself as faithfulness—and why so many women feel exhausted, tense, or restless even while “doing all the right things.”This conversation isn’t about letting go of responsibility or becoming passive. It’s about recognizing where trust quietly shifted into self-reliance, and why peace can’t coexist with control.If you’ve been trying harder, explaining more, or holding everything together in the name of obedience, this episode will help you release what was never meant to be carried.Surrender doesn’t begin with effort. It begins with rest. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS Looking for ongoing support? Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here: Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLWAs a mom of 5, I fuel my best daily to feel my best, stewarding this temple well. Grab my daily (13+ years) STACK. 2x certified Coach (...