What's Love Gotta Do With It? Finding Self-Love and Becoming the Love You Seek

  What does love really have to do with it… if you don’t love yourself first? This episode is a deep, honest conversation about self-love as the foundation of every relationship you will ever experience—and why so many of us are still operating from inherited stories about love that were never truly ours. Inspired by my book, Self Love: Becoming the Love You Seek, and a powerful Love Frequency Reset experience I facilitated in Vietnam, we go into the root of it all: the patterns, the conditioning, the ancestral imprints that shape how we give and receive love. Because the truth is— many of us didn’t learn love from a place of wholeness. We learned it through survival, through observation, through inherited emotional patterns passed down in our bloodlines. In this episode, we explore: Where your beliefs about love actually come from How ancestral patterns and early experiences shape your relationships Why you keep attracting the same dynamics (even when you’ve “done the work”) What it means to rewrite your love story consciously The power of ritual, release, and choosing differently I share the experience of guiding a sacred Love Frequency Reset—where we didn’t just talk about love… we released the old scripts and burned what no longer aligned, making space to consciously choose a new way of loving. Because self-love isn’t surface-level. It’s not just affirmations and bubble baths. It’s truth. It’s accountability. It’s remembrance. And when you truly become the love you seek— you stop chasing, you stop settling, and you start attracting relationships that meet you at your frequency. This episode is your invitation to reset. To come back to yourself. To become the love. My Downloadable Book Self-Love - becoming the love you seek https://pay.yvetteervin.com/Self-Love-Becoming-the-Love-You-Seek-check-out-page self love journey, becoming the love you seek, healing relationship patterns, ancestral love patterns, conscious relationships, love frequency, self worth and relationships, emotional healing, rewriting love story   #SelfLoveJourney #BecomeTheLove #LoveFrequency #HealYourPatterns