What's Your Premise? Talking with the Spectacular Carson Tueller

When I started this podcast, I had a list of some dream people I wanted to talk to. Among that list, was Carson Tueller. He’s someone I’ve followed for years, and whose writing and work has made a significant impact on me, especially on the days where I’m feeling like crap, or unworthy for whatever reason. So I was SO thrilled when he agreed to come on the show.  He has an incredible story, and he’s become an incredible force in the personal development space, among MANY other spaces.In today’s episode we’re talking:feelgoodery shorts all August longCarson’s Story Confronting your own premisesHow to feel empowered and afraid at the same timeWhy the term expert can be annoyingAbleism Carson’s Bio: Carson Tueller is a coach, speaker, and writer whose transformational work explores andchallenges our notions of freedom, identity, and radical self-discovery. Carson’s work began when the trajectory of his life changed in 2013 - not only did he come out and leave his lifelong Mormon faith, but he was also injured in an accident that left him paralyzed. Carson took what seemed to many like an insurmountable tragedy and turned it into the foundation of personal transformation.Carson has since risen to become an influential speaker, personal transformation coach, and advocate for queer and disabled people. He is a prominent figure on social media, featured in major publications and award-winning podcasts, sharing his unique message with audience worldwide. His diverse talents have taken him all over the globe, from speaking internationally to serving as a policy advisor for a major presidential campaign in 2020. Carson's mission lies in empowering individuals to reconnect to their authentic selves. Equipped with a deep understanding of the human condition, he is a master at unlocking human potential, freeing individuals from the constraints and barriers that keep them from living fulfilling, meaningful lives.Carson Tueller is more than just a coach and speaker - he's a catalyst for change.---You can find out more about Carson, including his articles (which have made a huge impact on me) at www.carsontueller.comCarson’s Instagram @carson_tueller --------The key moments in this episode are:00:00:00 : Intro & Housekeeping00:01:03 - Feeling on Edge and the Importance of Nap Time 00:03:10 - Introduction to Carson Tuller 00:05:47 - Carson's Backstory00:09:41 - Growing Up Queer in the Mormon Faith 00:15:08 - The Incident00:17:21 - Acceptance and Grief, 00:19:25 - The Psychological Impact of Spinal Cord Injury, 00:21:44 - Cultivating Self-Worth, 00:25:13 - Personal Premises and Catching Negative Thoughts, 00:29:27 - Heightening Awareness and Empowerment, 00:34:12 - Empowerment with Fear00:37:41 - Overcoming Fear 00:39:07 - Overcoming Apprehension in Asking for Help, 00:43:35 - The Journey of Personal Transformation, 00:44:18 - The Importance of Vulnerability, 00:45:00 - Overcoming Shame and Judgment, 00:47:08 - Taking Up Space and Embracing Expertise00:49:59 - Ableism 00:58:33 - Thank you00:59:00 - Embracing the embarassing01:00:33 - Legal disclaimer and conclusion,