When Does Optimism Become . . . Cruel? 🤔

Where is the threshold for when positive thinking and optimism become toxic? Or perhaps worse than toxic - downright cruel ?Key topics:✔️ Lauren Berlant's book Cruel Optimism. ✔️ What if a dream of "the good life" is actually holding you back from living a good life? Or what if the promise of that good life is totally bogus?✔️ "An attachment to a significantly problematic object." That's how I felt about my real estate quest and why I decided to strategically quit. ✔️An interesting argument is made for méconnaissance  causing us to project certain traits onto other people or things only to discover they may or may not have those qualities after all. We can see this in relationship hopping, job hopping, love bombing, political hoopla and rah-rahing, etc. There are a couple of places where I had cellular interference with the microphone. Sorry!Links I mention in this episode:https://www.amazon.com/Cruel-Optimism-Lauren-Berlant-ebook/dp/B005Z53MG4/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=cruel+optimism&qid=1663290855&sr=8-1https://www.yahoo.com/now/feel-used-rise-friend-bombing-053000357.htmlhttps://news.uchicago.edu/podcasts/big-brains/why-chasing-good-life-holding-us-back-lauren-berlanthttps://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2022/04/20/how-the-american-middle-class-has-changed-in-the-past-five-decades/Need more? Email me: https://causeyconsultingllc.com/contact-causey/