When Holidays Trigger Old Wounds

In this episode, we unpack why the holidays can make even the most self-aware adults feel like they’ve time-traveled back into childhood. From old roles to nervous system reflexes, Rachel explains how your body responds to family cues long before your logical brain catches up — and why that doesn’t mean you’re failing. She also offers simple, doable practices to help you stay connected to yourself instead of getting swept back into survival mode.What We CoverWhy you “regress” around family (hint: you’re not regressing — you’re reenacting)How your nervous system recognizes old cues from childhoodWhy holidays amplify pursue/withdraw patternsThe difference between bracing and being presentHow to interrupt old roles with tiny, compassionate shiftsA simple pre- and post-gathering check-in to support your systemIf this landed for you, leaving a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts makes it easier for people who need this to find it. It takes less than a minute and it genuinely helps.Got a question or a topic you'd like me to cover? Want me to coach on your topic? Share your request and if selected, I'll address it on an upcoming episode. [Submit Here]ResourcesFree 7-Day Relationship Challenge: 7 short emails and daily challenges that you can do with your morning coffee. You'll never see your relationship the same way again.Work with Me - Individualized Guidance: High-touch, individualized support for deep relational pattern change.Meaningful Journey Counseling (WA residents only): Licensed therapy services for individuals and couples in Washington State.DisclaimerThis podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for mental health treatment, therapy, diagnosis, or medical advice. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapist-client relationship. If you are experiencing significant distress, please seek support from a licensed mental health professional or medical provider.