When Hope Becomes a Trap - Breaking Free from Toxic Hope — with Chaya Garcia

In this episode, Tanya Gioia and Chaya Garcia dive deep into the emotional struggles of loving someone with addiction and how it can lead to enabling behaviors and toxic hope. They discuss the dangerous cycle of tolerating unacceptable behavior in the hope of change and why it's essential to shift your commitment from the addict to yourself.Learn how to create boundaries that protect your peace, and hear Chaya explain why setting limits, like not tolerating name-calling or dishonesty, can free you from unnecessary pain. This episode offers practical insights into how to love yourself well, set clear boundaries, and stop enabling unhealthy behaviors in your relationships.Main Topics Covered:Understanding the high vs. low tolerance for pain in relationships with addictionHow toxic hope can trap you in enabling behaviorsThe importance of setting boundaries with addictionHow to shift your focus from loving potential to loving the present realityThe emotional impact of tolerating unhealthy behaviors and how to break freeGuest Bio: Chaya Garcia is a relationship expert and coach with a passion for helping people navigate the complexities of love, boundaries, and personal growth. She specializes in empowering individuals to set healthy limits and break free from unhealthy relationship patterns. Links to Additional Resources:Chaya Garcia’s website: https://marriedin2025.com/Episode with Chaya on Faith Over Addiction: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUHnLK27BbkConnect with Chaya on Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/epicloveexpert/Learn more about Chaya’s programs: https://epiclovemastermind.com/Listen to Chaya’s podcast, Love in a Cup: Epic Love Experts YouTube Channel -- https://www.youtube.com/@EpicLoveExpert/videosFree Gfit : Get this free list of Christian affirmations that spell out who you are in God – actual in God’s own words. Repeat these biblical affirmations and replace these truths with the lies currently in your head! - https://www.tanyagioia.com/affirmations 👋🏼 GET IN TOUCH💻 Website - www.tanyagioia.com📸 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/soberon_purpose/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/tanya.gioia.9/🎧 LISTEN FOR FREEApple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/faith-over-addiction-for-christian-women-navigating/id1438258805Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7vDIdU0qejEuoPI2R3szpHRSS - https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/podcast/2fbb497f-9ffc-4d8a-802b-c862437fb6ee/8V4vMD8N9v🙏 LEAVE A REVIEWIf this episode spoke to you, please leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts to help others find the show! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/faith-over-addiction-for-christian-women-navigating/id1438258805Are you caught in the chaos of addiction, constantly cleaning up emotional, spiritual, and physical messes that aren't yours? Welcome to Faith Over Addiction, where faith meets real life. Hosted by Family Recovery Coach Tanya Gioia, this podcast is designed to offer Christian women hope, healing, and practical tools to navigate the challenges of loving someone with addiction.Through biblical truths, heartfelt stories, and actionable guidance, you’ll learn how to set healthy boundaries, find peace in the mess, and reclaim your God-given identity. You don’t have to carry what was never meant to be yours. It’s time to shift from “this is happening to me” to “this is happening for me,” and let God transform the chaos into something that glorifies Him.Every week, I’m here to encourage you, offer clarity, and remind you that as a daughter of the King, You Always Have Other Options (YAHOO). Together, we’ll embrace faith as the foundation, boundaries as the bridge to healing, and God’s truth as the ultimate guide to freedom, strength, and grace.Blessings,Tanya Gioia 🌸🎵 Music Credit:Track: Luz SolartArtist: Luna CantinaAlbum: Luz SolartReleased: 2024