When Love Had to Be Earned: The Childhood Wound of Enneagram Type Two

What happens when a child learns that love comes from being helpful?In this episode of STILL YOU, we explore the childhood wound of Enneagram Type Two — the moment when connection became something to earn instead of something to receive.We unpack:How Type Twos learned to prioritize others’ needs over their ownWhy helping became a survival strategyHow this wound shows up in adult relationships, friendships, and self-worthWhy resentment, exhaustion, and feeling unappreciated are so common for TwosPractical, compassionate steps to heal the wound and reconnect with your own needsThis conversation isn’t about giving less love. It’s about finally including yourself in it.If you’re an Enneagram Type Two — or love someone who is — this episode offers clarity, validation, and a path toward deeper, healthier connection.Schedule a 1on1: https://calendly.com/bundy-katelynn/30minTiktok: @stillyoupod Youtube: [email protected]: The Wisdom of The Enneagram: Don Richard Risso and Russ Hudson