When Love Slowly Erases You

In this episode, I’m joined by Nikki Allen, author of Loved You, Hated You — a story born from a relationship that didn’t leave visible damage, but slowly unraveled identity, self-trust, and voice from the inside out.What started as a song… became a screenplay… and eventually a novel — because fiction created the space to finally tell the truth.This conversation goes beyond relationships.We talk about the subtle patterns that pull women out of themselves… how emotional betrayal reshapes the way you see, feel, and respond… and what it actually takes to come back to your own voice after losing it.This isn’t about blaming an ex.It’s about recognizing the moment you left yourself… and what it takes to return.For those who see themselves in this conversation and want to explore more of Nikki’s work, you can find her here:👉 https://officialnikkiallen.com/Her site shares more about Loved You, Hated You, what inspired it, and the creative work she’s continuing to build — for anyone who wants to stay connected beyond this episode.