When ”Mother’s Little Helper” isnt helping any more. Addictions in our Parents. Tips to Help

Contact Helping.Mom (we don’t spam) "What a Drag it is Being Old," said the Rolling Stones, so Mom goes running for the shelter of a little yellow helper.  In verse 1: kids are different--1 pill In verse 2: husband-pleasing requires 2 more Then in pursuit of happiness she’s demands of doctor "more," as takes 4 more outside the door  Facts: 10% of aged 65+ have drug or drinking problem or addiction. Alcohol Use Disorder is the modern term. This means, of 60M 65+, 6M are addicted  40% of all alcohol related deaths in USA are in 65+ category  What are the four wives of an alcoholic? “Suffering Susan,” “Controlling Catherine,” “Wavering Winifred,” and “Punitive Polly.” Since 2021 women drink more than men and suffer worst bodily damage due to excessive drinking.  Withdrawal is process of cutting out, or cutting back on, addictive substances. Also called ‘detoxification’, or ‘detox’. Often triggered in aged by going into nursing home, or rehab post-surgery, as now they are monitored on medication usage, and do not have access to alcohol at home. Your mom may have a physical or psychological dependence on prescribed drug or alcohol. If physical dependence, her body will rely on taking the drug to feel normal. If she stops, she will have withdrawal symptoms.  Withdrawal symptoms may include: cravings, problems with sleep, irritability or agitation, feeling restless, trouble concentrating, mood changes, feeling depressed or anxious. Also, headaches, aches and pains, nausea, vomiting or diarrhoea. Severe could include confusion, and disorientation. Withdrawal symptoms can last for a few days or weeks. Cravings can last longer. Tips to help your mom: know these things, Work closely with medical professionals, Have her doctor stop prescriptions for anti depressants and anti anxiety meds, Monitor med distro at home and keep meds in safe, Remove alcohol from house, Be patient, Pray, Be Humble.