When Obsession Turns Deadly: What is Stalking? Who’s at risk?

Laurie leads this episode exploring the 2021 murder of Abigail Santana, a single mom and exotic dancer found shot in her garage. The hosts trace how an older customer’s obsession — marked by stalking, a tracking device on her car, and likely delusions — escalated into deadly violence. They discuss the psychology behind stalking and cluster B personality traits, the unique risks faced by hospitality and sex-industry workers, and how difficult it can be to prove stalking to law enforcement. Practical safety steps are shared: tell friends and family, document incidents, install cameras, and seek legal protection when possible. Resources mentioned include the Stalking Prevention Awareness and Resource Center (helpline: 855-4-VICTIM) and the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-SAFE).