When Roles Reverse: Caring for Parents in Our 60s

Constance and Lori speak to Ramsay Ringo, a career coach and expert on caring for elderly parents. We discuss the unique challenges of supporting aging parents when you are in your 60s yourself. Ramsay emphasizes the importance of a simplified approach to avoid overwhelming caregivers, and provides many practical tips. We explore the tension between ensuring the safety of elderly parents and respecting their desire for independence and autonomy.  We also cover the complexities of coordinating care across different family members and locations, and ways to talk to our adult children about caring for elderly parents. Finally, Ramsay coaches us on practical ways to prepare for our own aging. Please join us for this very constructive discussion.And don’t forget to hang around for our “After Thoughts” where Lori and Constance unpack the episode and chat about our thoughts on what we heard. SHOW NOTESIf you are interested in learning more about Ramsay’s work, check out her website: https://www.ramsayringo.com/Ramsay collaborates with clients who are looking to make an impact and:o   Take meaningful steps toward a new or first jobo   Change their professional focus or industryo   Pursue a professional position after time focusing on familyo   Tackle a big mid-life shift using decades of experience to do something with extra meaningo   Or to pursue the ultimate career shift, retirement and living into the third and fourth quarters of a values driven life. We were also lucky enough to persuade Ramsay to share one of her original poems with us: ScaredScared, Sad, Impatient Scared, Mad, A PatientScared, Bad, and ChasingThe Whole, Kind MomNow a Hole, Kind ChildTaught us how to ParentNow we aught to ParentScared, SadScaredWe would love to hear from you! Do you have ideas for future podcasts? Want to be a guest on our podcast? Please send your comments/suggestions/criticisms/encouragement to: Email: [email protected] & Review on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-aint-dead-yet/id1828702362Follow the show on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578375460053 Visit our website: https://wady.buzzsprout.comListen Here! (Our linktree will direct you to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, GoodPods, and Pocket Casts)You can text Fan Mail to the link below, but heads-up, we are unable to respond to these Fan Mail Texts. If you'd like a reply, please reach out on our FB/Substack/or email/or include your email address in your Fan Mail Text. TYSend us Fan MailBeautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt