When Someone Asks, 'Do You Have Kids?'

Questions like “Do you have children?” can feel anything but casual when you’re trying to conceive, navigating IVF, grieving a miscarriage, or facing fertility challenges. In this episode, Lara explores why these seemingly innocent questions can feel so intrusive—and reminds you that you never owe anyone your private story, medical history, or an explanation.Discover ways to respond that protect your energy, whether that’s a simple “no,” “not yet,” “we’re trying,” or “that’s a complicated question for me.” Lara shares how having a prepared response can help you avoid rambling, second-guessing, or feeling pressured to educate people about your journey.Your answer is yours to choose—and you’re allowed to change the subject, set a boundary, or say nothing more. You are not defined by whether you have children, and you don’t need to give anyone the answer they expect.For more support, check out my ⁠Monthly Fertility Snail Mail letter subscription ⁠