When Success Hides Anxiety // Sissy Goff

In this episode, we sit down with counselor and author Sissy Goff to talk about the hidden ways anxiety shows up in our daughters. From the pressure to be “the good girl” to the overwhelming expectations of school, sports, and social media, we unpack how perfectionism and performance can mask deep struggles. Together, we explore practical tools for parents to recognize the signs, model grace, and create safe spaces where kids learn that they don’t have to try harder—they can lean into God’s love and presence.Key TakeawaysHigh-performing, “good girls” often carry hidden anxiety that adults can easily miss.Success and perfectionism can be fueled by anxiety, not just motivation or talent.Parents can watch for subtle cues—like withdrawing from fun family activities or constantly deferring to peers.Modeling failure, laughter, and grace as a family helps kids loosen perfectionistic pressure.Small boundaries and simple practices (like limiting who to encourage each day) can redirect kids from burnout.The way parents talk to themselves shapes how they talk to their kids—self-compassion matters.Shifting from “try harder” language to “let’s pray and grow together” reflects the gospel of grace.Website: raisingboysandgirls.comInstagram:@sissygoffFacebook:Raising Boys and GirlsYouTube:Raising Boys and Girls========================================================We LOVE that you’ve decided to join us this week for the Living Wholehearted Podcast. We hope you enjoyed the conversation, tips, and resources to help you transform every relationship that matters most to you. If you think this will help someone you know, make sure you send it their way or share on socials. Tag us @living_wholehearted and @terramattson! Don't forget to FOLLOW/SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss an episode and help spread the word by leaving us some stars on a review. Thanks for partnering with us to help more leaders, just like you, who want to live and lead with integrity at home, work and in the community. Go to livingwholehearted.com and sign up to receive our free leadership tips and updates delivered to you in our monthly newsletter. And, if you’re a girl mom, check out mycourageousgirls.com.  Until next time, be the leader you would follow! Grateful for you,Jeff & Terra To connect with Jeff & Terra Mattson and Living Wholehearted, go to: INSTAGRAM@TerraMattson@Living_Wholehearted@MyCourageousGirls FACEBOOK@WeAreLivingWholehearted@MyCourageousGirls WEBSITESLivingWholehearted.comTerraMattson.com MyCourageousGirls.com RESOURCESShrinking the Integrity Gap Shrinking the Integrity Gap e-Course Courageous: Being Daughters Rooted in GraceDear Mattsons Helping Moms Raise Confident Daughters