When the Caregiver Becomes the Patient: Susan Bloom’s Story

In this deeply emotional episode, Rachel sits down with Susan Bloom, a woman who spent over five years as the unwavering caregiver for her husband as he battled a rare autoimmune disease and subsequent blood cancer. Susan eventually found her path to healing and helping others through Equine Gestalt therapy. KEY TAKEAWAYS The invisible toll of caregiving is staggering: Over the course of her husband's illness, Susan drove more than 57,000 miles to take him to various specialists and hospitals across multiple states. Being "the strong one" often means suppressing your own reality: Living in a conservative rural community and being the daughter of a doctor, Susan felt she couldn't safely vocalize her struggles and shoved her own emotions down to remain a pillar of strength for her family and town. Medical crises compound in unimaginable ways: Susan was diagnosed with breast cancer just eight months before her husband passed, requiring her to manage her own lumpectomy and daily radiation treatments alongside his out-of-town chemotherapy appointments. There is profound relief in surrendering control: Susan experienced a turning point when she finally accepted that she could not fix her husband's terminal illness, choosing instead to mentally package her need to control the outcome and "send it back to the universe". Healing requires deliberate, active work: To process the years of accumulated trauma and grief, Susan trained as an Equine Gestaltist; she now uses her 100-acre ranch and her horses to help others navigate their own emotional pain. BEST MOMENTS "I shoved everything down. I was the strong person, not only for my family, but for everyone in the community because he was really well known." "I sat out in front of the house in my Jeep and I thought, I just want this to be over. I want him to be well again. And in that moment it occurred to me that there was another outcome, that it could be over." "When I was diagnosed with breast cancer in November of '18... I mean literally Rachel, I was like, oh well, I don't really have time for this." "I just decided that I will learn my lesson and I'll send it back to the universe." To connect with your host, follow Me HERE:  Insta:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email: ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/rachel.elimelech⁠⁠   To Buy Rachel a Coffee: ⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/unspokenemotions⁠⁠  LinkedIn: ⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-elimelech-a07a1a46/⁠⁠  HOST BIO  Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.