When Two Type-As Collide: Ending the Power Struggle at Home

Have feed back, suggestions, or questions? CLICK HERE to Send us a Message.Mind Pilot Episode 90What happens when a command-presence mindset meets a strong-willed partner at home? In this episode of Mind Pilot, Dr. Jana Price-Sharps addresses the unique friction that occurs when two "Type-A" personalities share a life.For first responders and veterans, "winning" is often a survival mechanism—but applying that same urgency to household chores can be disastrous for a relationship. Dr. Jana breaks down why you are hard-wired to win, why it’s okay for your spouse to have a different opinion, and how to shift your goal from "winning the argument" to "resolving the issue." Tune in for practical advice on how to navigate the small battles—like the dishwasher and toothpaste—so you don't lose the war for your marriage.Topics CoveredLeave command presence at work: Giving orders works on the job, but it doesn't translate to a healthy partnership.Shift from winning to resolving: Winning the skirmish often means losing the war; focus on the solution, not the victory.Accept different opinions: Unless it is a life-or-death scenario, it is okay for your partner to do things differently.Gamify the small stuff: Turn petty irritations—like how to load the dishwasher—into a playful dynamic rather than a fight.Don't communicate while angry: You cannot resolve issues when you are heated; take a break to avoid unnecessary power struggles.Support the show