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EPISODE · Feb 24, 2026 · 9 MIN

When You Falsely Believe Your Pet Died Because of You | Ep 114

from Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD · host Erin Davis

👉 STOP REPLAYING YOUR PET'S DEATH - GET HELP FOR PET LOSS OCD - Break free from guilt in 3 weeks! Are you replaying your pet's final moments over and over? Googling their symptoms at 2am? Convinced you're responsible for their death? You're not a bad pet parent - OCD has hijacked your grief. In this episode, I reveal how to tell the difference between normal grief and OCD spirals after pet loss. 💜 🎯 What You'll Discover: When OCD Hijacks Your Grief: 🔹 Maria's story: How grief turned into obsessive research and guilt [00:46] 🐕 🔸 The difference between "I miss them" and "I murdered them" [01:22] 💔 🔹 Why normal grief allows closure but OCD demands certainty [02:36] 🔄 4 Common OCD Themes After Pet Loss: 🔸 Hyper-responsibility: "It's all my fault, I should have known" [03:02] 😰 🔹 Euthanasia doubts: "I need 100% certainty it was the right time" [03:30] ⚖️ 🔸 Intrusive images of your pet suffering on repeat [04:10] 😢 🔹 Magical thinking: "My negative thoughts caused this" [04:58] 🌀 How to Stop Feeding the OCD: 🔸 Recognize the thought: "This is an OCD story, not my truth" [06:55] 💡 🔹 Compulsions that make it worse: Googling, confessing, seeking reassurance [07:42] 🚫 🔸 Practice allowing feelings without solving them [08:22] 🕊️ ⏰ Episode Timeline: 00:00 Guilt after pet loss introduction 00:13 Welcome back to part two of pet loss series 00:46 Maria's story: Luna's declining health and euthanasia decision 01:22 When OCD hijacks grief after pet loss 02:36 Normal grief vs OCD: The critical differences 03:02 Theme #1: Responsibility and guilt (hyper-responsibility) 03:30 Theme #2: Did I do something wrong? (euthanasia doubts) 04:10 Theme #3: Intrusive images and thoughts on repeat 04:58 Theme #4: Magical thinking and "what if" spirals 06:06 How to tell the difference between grief and OCD 06:55 Practical tip: Label it as "an OCD story" 07:42 Compulsions that fuel pet loss OCD 08:22 Get help and reframe your thoughts 09:08 Closing and preview of next episode 📖 Key Takeaways: Normal grief comes in waves; OCD is relentless and demands answers You're not a bad person for having intrusive thoughts about your pet Every time you Google or seek reassurance, you teach your brain the thoughts are dangerous Your pet knew you loved them - you don't need certainty to know that's true 🔥 STRUGGLING WITH PET LOSS OCD? Can't stop replaying your decision to euthanize? My OCD Intensives program helps you break free from guilt spirals and intrusive thoughts in just 3 weeks. You'll learn to: Recognize OCD stories vs your truth Stop compulsions that fuel the guilt Allow grief without solving the unsolvable Find peace with decisions you can't change LIMITED SPOTS! Only ONE person per month. 👉 BOOK A CONSULT 💪 SUPPORT YOUR BODY WHILE GRIEVING Grief and OCD are exhausting on your body and mind. I personally use Core Nutritionals supplements to support my mental clarity and energy when processing difficult emotions. Use my code "ERIND" for 15% off your first order. 👉 Shop Core Nutritionals Affiliate link - I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you when you use my code! You're not a bad pet parent. You're someone grieving while experiencing OCD. Your pet knew you loved them. 💜 #petlossOCD #petlossgrief #euthanasiadecision #intrusivethoughts #petlossguilt #OCDrecovery #griefandOCD #magicalthinking #hyperresponsibility #petloss #dogmom #catmom #OCDtherapy #mentalhealthmatters Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you. This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4

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