When You Want to Change Your Husband

Melissa talks with Ann Wilson about the power of words in marriage and the importance of speaking life to one's spouse.Ann recounts a memorable turning point in her 45-year marriage when she realized her many attempts to help or “tweak” her husband were having the opposite effect than intended. They talk about recognizing that every marriage has peaks and valleys and give practical advice for getting through the hard seasons.Recommended Resources:How to Speak Life to Your Husband: When All You Want to Do Is Yell at Him by Ann WilsonThe Meaning of Marriage by Timothy KellerRelated Content:The Deep Dish: Married for GoodTim and Kathy Keller on Marriage in Gospel FocusA Biblical View of MarriageDiscussion Questions:1. Share a bit of your story—if you’re married, how did you and your husband meet? If you’re single, what relationships or experiences have shaped your view of marriage?2. How have you seen yourself and your husband grow or change over the years?3. How has God used marriage (or relationships) as a tool to shape your character and deepen your walk with Christ?4. In what ways would you like to use your words more wisely, especially in prayer and in communication with your husband (or with others in your life)?5. How do you discern when to extend grace and overlook an offense versus when to gently address it? How can you communicate truth in love in those moments?6. What are some intentional ways you can encourage your husband, honor him, or “fill his tank” (or the “tanks” of others in your life) this week?7. How can your discussion partners pray for you and your marriage? Pick up a copy of Stand In Awe wherever books are sold or visit crossway.org/standinawe to learn how to get 30 percent off with a free Crossway plus account. Get 20% off a course of your choice when you use code DEEPDISH20 at checkout. Learn more and register now at lifeway.com/academy. That’s lifeway.com/academy Click here for more information about Women's Initiatives at The Gospel Coalition!Click here to sign up for notification of on-demand access to keynotes and breakout sessions from our recent conference, TGCW26! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.