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EPISODE · Mar 18, 2026 · 21 MIN

When Your Adult Child Comes to You With a Problem: What to Do Instead of Fixing It

from Loving that Midlife · host Lori Buck

If you’ve ever found yourself standing in your kitchen, listening to your adult child share a problem… and feeling that immediate urge to fix it—this episode is for you.Because here’s the truth:Parenting doesn’t get easier when our kids grow up… it just gets different.In this episode, we’re talking about one of the hardest and least talked about parts of parenting adult children—knowing how to respond when they come to you with a problem.You’ll hear real-life situations—from job struggles to college challenges—and learn how to navigate those moments without overstepping, over-functioning, or taking on what isn’t yours to carry.We’ll also explore:The shift from hands-on parent to “consultant”Why unsolicited advice often feels like criticism to adult kidsHow to manage your own thoughts and emotions so you can show up with intentionAnd I’ll share a personal story about learning to trust my child in a hard situation—even when every instinct in me wanted to step in.If you’re in midlife and learning how to navigate this new season of parenting, this episode will help you feel more grounded, more confident, and less alone.If you liked this episode, please share it with a friend!And if you loved this episode, please rate the show and leave a review so others can find it, too.  You can also follow me on my socials:Instagram: @loribuckcoachingFacebook: Lori Buck CoachingWebsite: www.loribuckcoaching.com Email: [email protected]

If you’ve ever found yourself standing in your kitchen, listening to your adult child share a problem… and feeling that immediate urge to fix it—this episode is for you. Because here’s the truth: Parenting doesn’t get easier when our kids grow up… it just gets different. In this episode, we’re talking about one of the hardest and least talked about parts of parenting adult children—knowing how to respond when they come to you with a problem. You’ll hear real-life situations—from job struggles...

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