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EPISODE · Apr 1, 2026 · 23 MIN

When Your Adult Child Is Struggling (and You Can’t Make It Better)

from Loving that Midlife · host Lori Buck

When your adult child is struggling, everything in you wants to fix it. You want to step in. Make a call. Say the right thing. Take the pain away. But what happens when you can’t? In this episode, we’re talking about one of the hardest and most overlooked parts of parenting adult children— watching them go through something difficult… and having no way to make it better. Whether it’s a situation that feels unfair, a relationship that’s falling apart, or a season of anxiety, uncertainty, or emotional pain… this episode will meet you right where you are. You’ll learn:  Why the urge to fix feels so strong (and what’s actually driving it)  The difference between supporting your adult child and trying to rescue them  How to manage your own emotions when you feel helpless, anxious, or overwhelmed  What it looks like to stay present and connected without taking over This episode is part 3 of a 3-part series on parenting adult children:  When they come to you with a problem  When they make decisions you don’t agree with  When they’re struggling and you can’t fix it If you’ve ever thought: “I just want to make this better for them…” “I hate watching them go through this…” “I don’t know what to do…” You are not alone. This episode will help you learn how to support your child in a way that actually strengthens your relationship—without over-functioning, over-controlling, or losing yourself in the process.  If you’d like help applying this to your real-life situation, I offer free consultation calls. You can connect with me on socials, my website, or via email. If you liked this episode, please share it with a friend!And if you loved this episode, please rate the show and leave a review so others can find it, too.  You can also follow me on my socials:Instagram: @loribuckcoachingFacebook: Lori Buck CoachingWebsite: www.loribuckcoaching.com Email: [email protected]

When your adult child is struggling, everything in you wants to fix it. You want to step in. Make a call. Say the right thing. Take the pain away. But what happens when you can’t? In this episode, we’re talking about one of the hardest and most overlooked parts of parenting adult children— watching them go through something difficult… and having no way to make it better. Whether it’s a situation that feels unfair, a relationship that’s falling apart, ...

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When your adult child is struggling, everything in you wants to fix it. You want to step in. Make a call. Say the right thing. Take the pain away. But what happens when you can’t? In this episode, we’re talking about one of the hardest and most...

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