EPISODE · Jun 18, 2026 · 11 MIN
When Your Mother and Your Wife Give You Two Different Answers, Who Do You Obey? (S2 E2)
from Live Your Best Marriage Podcast · host Pesa Shayo
When his mother says one thing and your wife says another, who wins? In this episode Pesa Shayo breaks down the loyalty order God built into marriage, why honoring your parents and obeying them are not the same thing, and how a couple decides together so family pressure has nowhere to land. You will learn why "leave and cleave" is not cruel, where your mother's honored place actually sits in the line, and the first move to make as a united front this week. Take the free United Front Quiz and see exactly where your marriage is exposed to family and cultural pressure: https://liveyourbestmarriage.com/quiz Pesa Shayo helps cross-cultural Christian couples build a united front through in-laws, loyalty conflicts, and culture clashes. Learn more at:https://liveyourbestmarriage.com Chapters (00:00:00) - 0:00 Introduction(00:00:33) - The Real Problem(00:04:26) - Honor vs. Obey(00:07:19) - The Right Question(00:10:12) - Lead With We
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When his mother says one thing and your wife says another, who wins? In this episode Pesa Shayo breaks down the loyalty order God built into marriage, why honoring your parents and obeying them are not the same thing, and how a couple decides together so family pressure has nowhere to land. You will learn why "leave and cleave" is not cruel, where your mother's honored place actually sits in the line, and the first move to make as a united front this week. Take the free United Front Quiz and see exactly where your marriage is exposed to family and cultural pressure: https://liveyourbestmarriage.com/quiz Pesa Shayo helps cross-cultural Christian couples build a united front through in-laws, loyalty conflicts, and culture clashes. Learn more at:https://liveyourbestmarriage.com
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