Where Are the Young Catholics

My parents' and grandparents' generations did something unprecedented in the history of the Church. When their ancestors attempted to transmit the traditional culture of the faith to them, and which had been handed down with great care and diligence from their ancestors, my parents generations said, no thanks, we're going to do it our way. We're going to invent our own Catholic culture based on the contemporary fashions of the popular culture which we are so enamored with. And if that's a legitimate process of cultural succession - to reject your ancestors' culture in favour of perpetually reinventing the culture to whatever might fit your personal preferences in a given moment of time, then the thing that the Catholics from my parents' generation need to realize is that their cultural and liturgical sensibilities are just as susceptible to that process as was their parents' generation. In other words, what goes around comes around. But what I found in those early days of my faith when we were pushing the envelope was that we weren't going to be given that same liberty as they themselves had seized upon. If you want young people to participate in the life of the Church today, and apparently this is a lamentation that has appeared in much of the listening sessions of the synod on synodality – that there are no young people attending mass – then baby boomers need to suppress their own cultural preferences in deference to those of successive generations like millennials in the same way that they expected their ancestors to embrace their cultural revolution. If there's an unwillingness to do that, then maybe we need to admit that that isn't a legitimate way for culture to progress from one generation to the next. Maybe it's a bad idea to treat your parents' and grandparents' culture with contempt in the hopes that you can seize the reigns and make it all about your own generation. This cultural incoherence is the reason there is a lack of young people in the Church today. They are being told they can't have a Catholic culture that reflects their own pop culture sensibilities, like their parents' generation were allowed to do, but also, they aren't allowed to embrace a tradition that is truly traditional. Instead, they have to inherit the anti-traditional tradition of the 1960s and treat it with the reverence and enthusiasm that the people of that time were unwilling to treat previous traditions with.