Where Do Women Belong? | Laurie Novick

A thorough conversation about women’s roles, the beauty and significance of Jewish law, and the lived experience of women’s Judaism.This episode is dedicated by Schwartzie’s daughters in honor of the 8th yartzeit of their father, Shlomo Yitzchak Ben Moshe, aka Schwartzie. Do a mitzvah in his honor.Today’s episode explores questions like:What is the ideal definition of a Jewish woman’s role within Judaism?Do we have an impossible vision of what a Jewish woman is?Should we meet women's desires for more spiritual engagement with suspicion?Do women belong in shul?What does it mean for the Jewish woman to be the heart of the home?Has Laurie ever struggled with Jewish womanhood?What is the halachic significance of women’s mitzvot?Laurie Novick is the Director and Head Writer of Deracheha, a comprehensive resource for women and mitzvot. She has worked as a Yoetzet Halacha since Fall 5763 and teaches at Migdal Oz. Laurie is also a Yoetzet Halacha Fertility Counsellor, a member of a pilot cohort of Yoatzot Halacha who have received advanced training in fertility issues and Halacha and taught for many years at Nishmat. She has degrees in Bible, Jewish Education, and Talmud and has also done graduate work in Counseling.Contact Laurie here: [email protected] to Deracheha here: deracheha.orgLink to the piece that includes discussion of Rebbitzen Bayla Falkhttps://www.deracheha.org/concepts-introduction/Episode Partners:TOVEEDO: An online children's streaming subscription featuring exclusive Jewish content created and sourced by Toveedo. Use code HH10 for 10% off at Toveedo.com.ZELDA HAIR: A wig company that champions the holistic process of hair covering for Jewish women. Shop Zelda Hair at zeldahairshop.com and discover the heart behind the brand on Instagram @zeldahair.Email us at [email protected]:00:00 Introduction00:00:30 Toveedo Sponsorship00:01:00 Zelda Hair Sponsorship00:01:28 Host’s Introduction00:03:00 Welcome Laurie Novick00:05:25 Developing a Personal Interest In Women and Halacha00:07:30 Every Jewish Woman Deserves Access to Sources On This Topic00:10:00 Does Exploration of this Topic Have to be Motivated by Discontent?00:12:24 All Topics of Torah Are Interconnected00:13:00 We Used to Learn About Jewish Womanhood From Our Mothers00:17:00 The Lived Experience of Judaism Begins in the Home00:19:20 Deepening Our Experience of Judaism Through Study00:20:00 How Would You Define a Woman’s Role?00:23:40 Do We Have an Impossible Vision of what a Jewish Woman is?00:28:00 Honing in On Your Personal Values00:29:45 Is The Woman the Heart of the Home?00:34:38 Honing in On What Each Holiday Means to You00:36:48 When Your Spiritual Yearnings as a Woman Are Met With Suspicion00:40:00 Trusting Your Desire To Do Mitzvos00:42:38 Eating In The Sukkah as a Woman00:43:30 How to Channel Your Desire To Be More Engaged00:46:00 The Halachic Significance of Women’s Mitzvos00:47:27 This Is Not a Problem, It Is An Opportunity00:47:55 Women’s Relationship to Shul & Torah Reading00:51:00 There Are Many Women Within Each of Us00:52:50 Shutting Down Our Channels of Connection00:54:15 Is This for the Sake of Heaven?01:01:16 What Is Halacha?1:05:29 Jewish Law is Responsive to Life’s Nuances1:07:30 Why Learning the Backstory to Halacha is Important1:10:40 The Variety of Halachic Opinions1:12:36 The Lived Experience of Jewish Law1:17:00 The Significance of Learning Halacha From a Woman’s Perspective1:20:23 Women’s Halachic Obligations Reveal the Fundamental Definition of Mitzvos1:22:00 Women Should Not Be a Footnote1:25:22 Has Laurie Ever Struggled with What It Means to be a Jewish Woman?1:27:50 Questions Are a Healthy Part of Our Spiritual Paths1:28:22 Making Simchas Torah More Woman Friendly1:31:00 What Has Torah Study Given Laurie As a Person?1:31:31 Jewish Role Models1:33:20 What Does It Mean to be a Jewish Woman?