Where The H*ll's My Husband? Ep. 17

Where the hell IS your husband? Spoiler: he is NOT on a bro podcast, in a Reddit thread, or at an incel meeting trying to figure out if you're a 7 or an 8. This week we're inspired by Raye's brass-band anthem and using actual Harvard-adjacent science to talk about why specificity is the cheat code, why "I just want a good man" is settling energy, and why your husband isn't late... you just may not really want one. References Locke, E.A. & Latham, G.P. "Building a Practically Useful Theory of Goal Setting andTask Motivation: A 35-Year Odyssey." American Psychologist, 57 (2002). Locke, E.A. & Latham, G.P. A Theory of Goal Setting & Task Performance (1990). Locke, E.A. & Latham, G.P. "New Directions in Goal-Setting Theory." Current Directionsin Psychological Science (2006).Song Featured: "Where Is My Husband!" by Raye (Human Re Sources, 2025). Written & co-produced byRaye and Mike Sabath.Interview Referenced: RAYE in conversation with British Vogue, September 2025.Links: Apply: candiceharperlovecoach.com/grown-liberated-loveMusical Theme Arrangement: Wes Kilgore