EPISODE · May 5, 2021 · 26 MIN
Who can also relate to this???
from Thulani Tomose · host Thulani Tomose
Who can relate to this??? For some people who don’t get it I am selfish just because they don’t understand how difficult and painful it is to walk away... I learned to walk away from people or situations sometimes even if it has broke my heart to let go sometimes... It broke my heart to let go of the people who means so much to me, but we’re not good for my heart and my mind... I learned to accept my nature and I also learned to accept other people’s nature. I don’t just walk away from people or situations that I need to face or solve. I just learned the importance of knowing when to walk away and when to deal with the situation or people. I learned to accept when I am not a good fit to someone’s life, and we are repeating hurting each other’s instead of pouring love. Let me be more direct to you, people will hurt you, people will treat you bad sometimes, they will betray you and do you dirty sometimes. But you always have a choice to accept their nature of choice and stay even if they have no intentions to change what is hurting you or you choose to love yourself enough and choose for caring, sharing, loving and walks away from people who are suffering but not admitting and dealing with their inner conflicts and hurting others. I walk away from people that are always complaining, blaming, selfish, hurting, negative but are not willing to change the situation or themselves... instead they choose to be negative and become victims of their story. They like adding more stress in the given situations or in other people’s mind and don’t want to solve it on their own. I walk away from people who are selfish and are not willing to communicate the issues or solve their inner conflicts. Instead, they are repeating the same hurtful mistakes. They are continuing with their negative habits that they know are hurting themselves and people around them. I walk away peacefully when I know I tried and I gave my all to change the situation...conflicts...miss understandings. I learned to stop hurting myself with my own allowance, with my own actions... I also stopped allowing people to hurt me, just because I am loyal to them. If you want peace of mind, learn to be more conscious and choose wisely what kind of people you want to be around in your life journey. Refuse to accept or settle for less than what you deserve... Know your value as a person... I don’t care if it’s a family member, partner, a friend, a job when their behavior starts to threaten me I walk away peacefully... This is my advice to you... Don’t mistaken walking away as weakness because I also used to believe that lye for a long time...! It is ok to walk away from something or people that are abusing you emotionally, physically, mentally... It’s ok to walk away from people that are only profiting from you, people that are using you, hurting you... I believe everything and every person that comes in to your life it’s for a reason... I don’t know about your beliefs but I believe in the voice in me which I call my God... Since I started trusting in my instincts...spending more time alone... I became closer to my creator. I find peace...love...hope...when I go within myself. I made a choice that many are afraid to do, to spend more time alone, confronting myself with my inner conflicts. Working on myself... I chose for myself to find my why’s... Finding what makes me to feel good about myself. I stopped putting my hopes, my happiness in relationship, in jobs, career, family, friends, partner. If you may need support to learn to take back your full control of yourself, your responsibility for yourself and your life. Feel free to visit my website for more information and contacts. I wish you a wonderful day. Lots of love. Thulani❤️🙏🏾 http://www.facebook.com/LiberateYourself.BefreieDich/ https://tomose.ch/
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