Who Decides What a Complete Life Looks Like?

Send a textDo you want what you want because YOU want it? Or was that desire implanted in you? Today we turn over this question and ponder what informs the complete life checklist. Who decides what a complete life looks like? If we don't answer, "I do" –who have we given the power to?  Your parents? The patriarchy?  Society at large? Is it inside of you or is it outside of you? What matters most is that you know it's there. Following this question through the wormhole of "Old Rules" and old programming, Linda shares the moment she realized that she wasn't marching to the beat of her own drum after all. Desires and goals are a beautiful thing, but if you aren't clear on your why, or your why is about fulfilling outside expectations, your energy gets tripped up  and creating results will be challenging. A goal like motherhood, is beautifully complex, so it makes sense to examine your why(s). We are going there!Here's the thing: Insights can go poof in the night if you don't take action right away.  When you uncover some gnarly, stinky, old rule in your life, register that awareness, AND THEN TAKE ACTION! First: write a new rule. Nature abhors a vacuum. Then put that new rule into action-- the tiniest step to let you know what it's like to live in the new rule. THEN: get it grounded in you. Grid lines are pretty powerful. You're going to get right back on that track unless you bust a move. So find a buddy, get her in that sidecar with you and make a pact to expand and evolve. Episode is Not LivePublish: Apr. 09, 2021 @ 7PM EditPublishTranscript is LiveDelete this transcript.UnpublishAdd Chapter MarkersListeners can tap through & see what’s coming up.Create a Visual SoundbiteBest way to share to social media for engagement.Share Episode On FacebookTwitter