Who Programmed You? Childhood Voices Still Running Your Adult Life

What if the voice in your head is not really yours?In this episode of the Words of Encouragement Podcast, Frankie Lubin, AKA Mr. Made Different, and co-host Alexis Gillespie talk about childhood programming, identity, and the words that still shape how we show up as adults.A lot of us were told things like “be quiet,” “stay out of grown folks’ business,” “you talk too much,” or “stop acting like that.” And years later, we call it our personality. But let’s be real… sometimes that’s not who you are. That’s who you were trained to be.This conversation is for the person who struggles to speak up, overthinks everything, people-pleases, or feels like they have to shrink themselves to be accepted. You don’t need more validation. You need identity.In this episode, we talk about:Childhood voices that became adult beliefsWhy “that’s just how I am” may not be the full truthHow silence, rejection, and criticism shape identityBreaking free from old programmingLearning how to speak, grow, and become who God created you to beFrankie IG: @iamfrankielubinAlexis IG: @ruach.pnuemaDrip Juice Bar: https://dripjuicebar.square.site/Join the prayer group: https://prayergroup.lovable.app/Subscribe for more faith-based conversations on identity, healing, purpose, people-pleasing, and becoming who God called you to be.