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EPISODE · Jun 16, 2026 · 17 MIN

Whoʻs Killing Your Lights? How Energy Vampires And People Pleasing Are Draining Your Power!

from Lights On! · host The Lights On!

How lit up are you right now — really? In this episode of The Lights On! Podcast, Kyahnasun and Anamika tackle one of the most relatable struggles there is: dealing with energy vampires and light killers — the people who feed off your energy, push your buttons, and leave you feeling drained, "uglier," and shut down.They challenge you to know thyself on another level, identify who is a light killer in your life, and propose an audit of what kind of games you really want to play. Clarity and decisive action or non-action, is the key so that your time and energy spent is focused on what brings you closer to yourself and your calling. Cherish your lights and protect them, there is always a distraction at bay. The episode breaks down how to spot a light killer before they get their hooks in, why these dynamics are never really about you, and the hard-won boundary work it takes to stop letting people take your energy without realizing what's happening. The conversation moves through jealousy and envy, the "witchy archetype" of manipulative people, soul tribes versus relationships you have to work for, and why being lit up sometimes means being the most triggering person in the room — whether you mean to be or not.They also open up about their own relationship — a mother-daughter dynamic built on radical honesty — and why they started this podcast in the first place.Send us Fan Mail Via Text/Voicemail!Support the showSUBSCRIBE: https://youtube.com/@the_lights_on_podcastListen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/showListen On Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lights-on/Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelightsonpodcast?Get a 10% discount with code LIGHTSONPPODCAST - https://healthlighting.com/lightsonpodcastWebsites: https://diamondlightning.com/https://lightsonpodcast.buzzsprout.com/Lights On! Podcast YT Playlist: https://youtube.com/

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How lit up are you right now — really? In this episode of The Lights On! Podcast, Kyahnasun and Anamika tackle one of the most relatable struggles there is: dealing with energy vampires and light killers — the people who feed off your energy, push your buttons, and leave you feeling drained, "uglier," and shut down. They challenge you to know thyself on another level, identify who is a light killer in your life, and propose an audit of what kind of games you really want to play. Clarity and d...

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