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EPISODE · Jul 9, 2026 · 59 MIN

Who Taught Us Not to Be Ashamed? EP 774

from Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST · host Stephen V.Rodriguez

• Robin Byrd as a sex-positive pioneer and ally • Late-night cable as a form of queer visibility • Safe sex conversations during the AIDS crisis • Madonna, Confessions II, and gay liberation through music • The dance floor as a place of healing, sexuality, and freedom • How TAGSPODCAST has evolved over 8+ years • What gay men are still afraid to confess • Sex, shame, aging, kink, intimacy, and honesty • The people and places that taught us we were not alone At its heart, this episode is about permission — permission to talk, to desire, to confess, to laugh, to learn, and to stop apologizing for who we are. Hot Topic: Titanique Review on Broadway by Steve V Hot Topic: Frankie Grande speaks out after Kiehl's the brand sides with a shady comment... Hot Topic: Madonna's Confessions 2 is reviewed by Steve V Hot Topic: Diving Champ Bryan Hattie wears a string thong and we're here for it... Hot Topic: Hudson Williams in a mankini... Hot Topic: What is 'summer penis'??? Hot Topic: Homobloc concert in Manchester features all lgbtq performers... Hot Topic: People are attracted to bigger in new book Advice: How to get confident as a nudist or go to the nude beach.. Follow Steve V's new Substack features weekly articles: https://substack.com/@thenakedtruthsteve Follow Stevie on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Robin Byrd, Madonna, Confessions, and the sex-positive baton TAGS has carried for 8+ years On EP 774 of TAGSPODCAST, Host Steve V. and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette look at the people, pop icons, late-night pioneers, and queer spaces that helped gay men talk about sex without shame. After watching the Robin Byrd documentary, Steve reflects on Byrd’s impact as more than a late-night cable personality. She created space for adult performers, queer people, nightlife figures, outsiders, and honest conversations about sex at a time when mainstream culture often pushed those voices aside. Steve also shares his personal connection to Byrd after renting her Fire Island house years ago. The conversation expands into Madonna and the release of Confessions II, exploring how Madonna’s long relationship with gay men, AIDS awareness, sexual freedom, dance-floor culture, and chosen family helped many queer people feel seen. For Steve, Madonna made sex feel powerful, expressive, and less shameful. Steve and Kodi also reflect on TAGSPODCAST’s own role in carrying the sex-positive baton for the past 8+ years. Through conversations about kink, HIV, PrEP, hookups, love, shame, aging, bodies, open relationships, and desire, the show has become a place for honest gay sex talk — and along the way, the hosts have surprised themselves with how much they’ve shared and learned. This episode asks: Who gave us permission to talk about sex? Was it Robin Byrd? Madonna? Porn? Bars? Fire Island? The Eagle? A drag queen? An older gay man? A friend? A hookup? Or the dance floor itself?

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