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Who Was Ward McAllister?

Ward McAllister helped create New York City high society during the Gilded Age. But who was this mysterious Southern man?

Episode 92 of the The Gilded Gentleman podcast, hosted by Bowery Boys Media, titled "Who Was Ward McAllister?" was published on August 4, 2025 and runs 39 minutes.

August 4, 2025 ·39m · The Gilded Gentleman

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Ward McAllister helped create New York City high society during the Gilded Age. But who was this mysterious Southern man?

Some called him the Gilded Age's biggest snob. Others thought he was a genius of social protocol and maneuvering through aristocratic circles.  

Most famously, he acted as Mrs. Astor's right hand in sorting, selecting and assembling a group of New York's elite he was credited (erroneously) as naming "the 400".  Nonetheless his influence on who got in and who stayed out was significant - but just exactly who was HE?  

Join Carl for this in-depth look at just who Ward McAllister (played by Nathan Lane in HBO's "The Gilded Age") was and how he climbed the social ladder - and most of all, how he committed one of Gilded Age society's greatest sins - he wrote a book and told all. 

Listen to other Gilded Gentleman shows tied to the HBO series including Black Newport, Playing Mamie Fish, Consuelo Vanderbilt and the Gilded Age’s Million Dollar Princesses and The Real Mrs. Astor. 

And listen to the Bowery Boys Podcast's Tom Meyers on the Official Gilded Age Podcast


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