Who’s Really in Your Foxhole?

Everyone says they’ve got your back. But what happens when your life gets messy enough to actually test it? In Episode 2 of You Think This Is Real?, Greg Kimble sits down with Anthony Goldner—business partner, close friend, first responder, and leader of Gamma Group—for a raw conversation about brotherhood, men’s mental health, and the difference between people who say they care and the ones who actually show up when everything falls apart. Pasted text Greg opens up about realizing just how much of his own life had become performative—and what happened when he finally started telling the people around him, “I’m not okay.” Some relationships disappeared. Others doubled down. That experience taught him what it actually means to have someone in your foxhole: not when life is easy, but when you’re chaotic, struggling, difficult to deal with, and need someone anyway. Pasted text Anthony brings a perspective shaped by 13 years in law enforcement, including the reality of witnessing tragedy and then having to walk back through the front door and simply be a husband and father. Together, they explore why men bottle things up, why brotherhood matters, and why strength doesn’t have to mean handling everything alone. Pasted text They also get into fake caring—the people who suddenly appear when your life goes sideways but were nowhere to be found beforehand—and what genuine support actually looks like. Sometimes it's listening. Sometimes it's advice. Sometimes it's a hug. And sometimes it's your friend telling you exactly what you don't want to hear. Pasted text Because real men can lead with love. And real love isn't always soft. When everything goes wrong, who’s actually in your foxhole?