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EPISODE · Sep 13, 2026 · 31 MIN

Why age-gap friendships are a risk worth taking

from Bookends with Mattea Roach

How many of your friends are over 30 years older than you? When Marc Bendavid was 12, he met a teacher that changed his life. His debut novel, The Sapling, is about their generation-defying bond … and living in those memories in the wake of her death. So how can a meaningful friendship between a 12 year-old and a 44 year-old defy what we think about the gap between generations? And how does someone live and change through our memories of them? This week, Marc joins Mattea Roach to talk about the real teacher that inspired the book, the beauty of aging and what you can gain from connecting with people older and younger than you. Liked this conversation? Keep listening:Can our friendships age with us?  Ocean Vuong finds beauty in a fast food shift  Check us out on Instagram @cbcbooks and TikTok @cbcbooks

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