Why anxiously attached people find sex workers so addictive

Are you worried that the escort you have chosen to book won't think you're attractive or good at sex?  Do you spend time focussing on what might make him/her/them comfortable or impress, rather than giving thought to how they might pleasure you?  Do you feel that you give and give, but nobody seems to want to take care of you and love you in the way you need?  You might have an anxious attachment style!