Why Are Kids Cutting Off Their Parents? | EP18

Text us anytime!!CLICK HERE FOR ALL OUR LINKS: http://www.linktr.ee/wearegenerasianxIn this episode, Anita and Aileen ask, why so many ADULT children classify their parents as toxic?  With the appearance of various articles highlighting parent-child estrangement, they examine this trend to see if this is relevant to them as a product of the Generation X “hands off” parenting approach.They discuss the label TOXIC PARENT, and the reasons given by ADULT children for this estrangement. Some aspects that are examined during this discussion:Shift in society and social movements Changes in what is considered acceptable parentingUnderstanding of mental healthNatural process of separation and identity formation in children transitioning to adulthoodThis complex topic is addressed with candid stories of how they were able to rehabilitate and/or continue relationships with their parents despite disagreements, disappointments and painful incidents. They share their thoughts and discuss questions such as:What is toxic parenting?Did we consider our parents toxic? How do you heal from not having emotional needs met? Can you reconnect with parents or children after being estranged? How do you stop the pattern of toxic parenting?Hear their insights and hacks as they continue to strive to have a healthy relationship with their parents, and transition into maintaining a healthy relationship with their ADULT children. They share pivotal moments that brought healing with their parents, and the experiences that taught them how to parent better. The statistics presented in the podcast are based on the articles, studies and survey listed below.Articles/Studies:Parenting for Brain, September 2023, https://www.parentingforbrain.com/why-adult-children-are-cutting-off-their-parents/Psychology today, 2023, https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/family-dynamics/family-estrangement#:~:text=Adult%20children%20mostly%20cut%20off,a%20break%20may%20be%20needed.Psychology SPOT (found in on-line search 9/14/2023) https://psychology-spot.com/why-adult-children-are-cutting-off-their-parents/Newsweek, September 15, 2022 https://www.newsweek.com/parenting-family-mom-dad-children-estrangement-cut-off-1739384, Science 2.0: 2019 University of Wisconsin Survey https://www.science20.com/news_staff/when_adult_children_cut_ties_with_their_parents_parents_believe_differently_than_the_kids_about_why-255866#:~:text=A%20survey%20of%20over%201%2C000,the%20reason%20and%20parents%20believe.Ohio state study,October, 6th 2021: Looks at the 2019 UW survey, Ohio State studies conducted Sarah-Schopple-Sullivan (Ohio State Professor) and Joshua Coleman (one of board of directors of Council of Contemporary Families and author of, Rules of Estrangement: Why adult Children Cut Ties and How to Heal the Conflict) https://news.osu.edu/study-examines-what-makes-adult-children-cut-ties-with-parents/)2015 University of Cambridge Study WARNING: This episode may not be appropriate for children , uncomfortable or tri****************************************************************Follow us on social!!-->> Link to all things GenerAsianX [Website, Where to listen, Our Email and Social sites]: ****DISCLAIMER****This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and should not be considered legal or professional advice or services. This podcast is not meant to replace professional medical advice. This podcast (including hosts and guests) are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast. This podcast is for private non-commercial use. Any guests do not necessarily reflect any agency or organization or company.