Why Being "Too Masculine" Is Blocking Your Love Life | FT: Faye

Why Being "Too Masculine" Is Blocking Your Love Life | FT: Faye CONNECT WITH CHARLENE:On Instagram @mscharlenebyars([https://www.instagram.com/mscharlenebyars]On YouTube @chosentraining(https://www.youtube.com/@lovestorieswithcharlenebyars))Work with me HERE([https://charlenebyars.com/](https://charlenebyars.com/))CONNECT WITH Jacqueline FayeOn Instagram @(/)On YouTubeCelebrity matchmaker, bestselling author, and NLP practitioner Jacqueline Faye ("Faye the Fairy Matchmaker") joins the podcast to break down what actually makes a woman magnetic in dating and relationships. After a decade running Diamond Club Matchmaking for high-achieving men and women, Faye shares the biggest patterns she's seen, from women with unrealistic "checklists" around age and height, to the personal journey that inspired her book, Seduce Like a Goddess.Timestamps:00:00 — Intro: Meet Jacqueline Faye, "The Fairy Matchmaker" 02:00 — How Faye Got Into Matchmaking (From Actress to NLP Coach) 04:30 — Why She Started Diamond Club Matchmaking 06:15 — What Faye Noticed First: Entitled vs. Underprepared Women 09:00 — Are Women Really Looking for Love or a Feeling? 11:00 — The Problem With Rigid Dating "Checklists" (Age, Height, etc.) 13:30 — Faye's Personal Story: Becoming the Breadwinner & Losing Her Feminine Energy 17:00 — Taking Phone Calls While Giving Birth (The Hustle Culture Trap) 19:30 — How Her Marriage Changed When Roles Shifted 22:00 — Reclaiming Feminine Energy in Business and Life 24:30 — The Chronic Pain Story: Masculine Energy & the Body 26:30 — Letting Him Lead: Practical Examples 29:00 — What Men Actually Want: Affection AND Appreciation 31:30 — Why Saying "Thank You" After a Date Still Matters 34:00 — Behind the Book: "Seduce Like a Goddess" & the Secret Spell Concept 36:30 — Manifestation, Mantras, and Getting "Lit Up From the Inside" 39:00 — Client Story: Throwing Out the "Tall, Handsome" Checklist 42:00 — Biological Age vs. Chronological Age in Dating 45:00 — Healthy Love Is Created, Not Found (Attachment Styles) 47:30 — Faye's Story: Letting Go of Timelines Around Having Kids 50:00 — Why Desperation Energy Repels Men 52:00 — What Keeps Long-Term Couples in Love (Date Nights, Effort, Spice) 55:00 — Chemistry vs. Compatibility Explained 58:00 — Advice for Singles: Ask Questions, Don't Just Talk About Yourself 1:00:30 — Advice for Married Women: Reigniting the Spark 1:02:30 — Miss Charlene's Trench Coat Story 1:04:00 — Where to Find Faye + Get the Book 1:05:30 — Closing Thoughts: Step Into Your Goddess FrequencyFaye opens up about her own shift from operating in "masculine hustle energy" as a CEO and breadwinner to reclaiming her feminine energy, and how that shift changed her marriage, her business, and even a year-long chronic pain issue she believes was tied to the imbalance. The conversation covers what most women misunderstand about men (hint: it's not just affection they crave, it's appreciation), the difference between chemistry and compatibility, why throwing out rigid dating "timelines" often leads to exactly what you were chasing, and practical advice for both single and married women on reigniting attraction, receiving instead of over-giving, and staying open to partners who don't match a mental checklist.This episode blends real client stories, personal vulnerability, and practical dating advice for women looking to shift from chasing love to naturally attracting it.