Why Boys Struggle in Elementary School and What Moms Can Do About It

Why do so many boys start saying “I hate school” as early as kindergarten? In this eye-opening episode of the Mothers of Boys Survival Guide, Suzy Shaw talks with Jennifer Fink—author of Building Boys and The First Time Mom’s Guide to Raising Boys—about why so many boys struggle in elementary school, often long before parents expect it. From behavior referrals and reading frustration to developmental differences, classroom bias, and the critical importance of movement, confidence, and advocacy, this conversation helps moms better understand what may really be happening when school becomes a daily battle. Suzy and Jennifer share personal stories, practical strategies, and empowering reminders that struggling in school does not mean your son is failing—it may mean the system isn’t built with boys in mind. If your son is bored, acting out, falling behind, or already saying he hates school, this episode will help you better understand why—and what you can do to support him. Topics include: • Why boys are disciplined more often than girls—even in preschool • Developmental differences that impact reading, writing, and behavior • How recess, movement, and hands-on learning affect boys’ success • Advocating for your son with teachers and schools • Creative strategies for reading resistance and school frustration • Why believing in your boy matters more than ever This episode is a powerful reminder: your son may not be the problem—and you are not alone. 🎧 Listen now on your favorite podcast platform or at mothersofboys.life #MOBsurvivalguide #MothersofBoys #RaisingBoys #BoyMom #ParentingBoys #ElementarySchool #BoysInSchool #SchoolStruggles #ParentingTips #JenniferFink #BuildingBoys #BoysAndLearning #EducationMatters #ReadingStruggles #BoyMomLife #SchoolSuccess #ParentAdvocacy #RaisingGreatGuys #ParentingPodcast #MomsOfBoys