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EPISODE · Jun 13, 2026 · 32 MIN

Why Changing Habits Feels So Hard

from My Ultimate Self · host Andrea Bohn

What if the reason changing your habits feels so hard isn’t because you lack willpower, but because you’ve been trying to change in the wrong way?In this episode of the podcast, Andrea talks about why changing habits can feel so hard and why motivation alone is not enough for lasting growth. Andrea shares three common reasons healthy habits are difficult to maintain. She also explains the deeper mindset shift that helps change last: moving from simply changing behavior to becoming the kind of woman who lives in alignment with her health, faith, and purpose. If you are working on healthier habits for your mind, body, or spirit, this episode will encourage you to start small, get clear on your why, learn what you need to know, and celebrate progress over perfection.KEY TAKEAWAYS• Why motivation alone rarely leads to lasting change• The hidden reason most new habits don't stick• How identity shapes your daily choices• Why small steps create bigger results than dramatic overhauls• A simple framework for creating meaningful, lasting changeMENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEmyultimateself.comBook mentioned: Eat That Frog by Brian TracySilver Seas by Margot: https://www.instagram.com/silverseasbymargot/Reflection question: Where are you desiring the most change right now - mind, body, or spirit?TIMESTAMPS00:01 Why healthier habits are about mind, body, and spirit01:10 Why motivation is temporary and cannot sustain lasting change05:58 Busy schedules, procrastination, and trying to change too much10:17 The identity shift: moving from doing to becoming19:30 Practical tools for lasting change: why, education, small steps, celebration, and faithNEXT STEPIf this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend who is trying to build healthier habits or take a screenshot and tag me on Instagram at @andrea4health. Let’s keep encouraging one another as we grow in mind, body, and spirit.

What if the reason changing your habits feels so hard isn’t because you lack willpower, but because you’ve been trying to change in the wrong way?In this episode of the podcast, Andrea talks about why changing habits can feel so hard and why motivation alone is not enough for lasting growth. Andrea shares three common reasons healthy habits are difficult to maintain. She also explains the deeper mindset shift that helps change last: moving from simply changing behavior to becoming the kind of woman who lives in alignment with her health, faith, and purpose. If you are working on healthier habits for your mind, body, or spirit, this episode will encourage you to start small, get clear on your why, learn what you need to know, and celebrate progress over perfection.KEY TAKEAWAYS• Why motivation alone rarely leads to lasting change• The hidden reason most new habits don't stick• How identity shapes your daily choices• Why small steps create bigger results than dramatic overhauls• A simple framework for creating meaningful, lasting changeMENTIONED IN THIS EPISODEmyultimateself.comBook mentioned: Eat That Frog by Brian TracySilver Seas by Margot: https://www.instagram.com/silverseasbymargot/Reflection question: Where are you desiring the most change right now - mind, body, or spirit?TIMESTAMPS00:01 Why healthier habits are about mind, body, and spirit01:10 Why motivation is temporary and cannot sustain lasting change05:58 Busy schedules, procrastination, and trying to change too much10:17 The identity shift: moving from doing to becoming19:30 Practical tools for lasting change: why, education, small steps, celebration, and faithNEXT STEPIf this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend who is trying to build healthier habits or take a screenshot and tag me on Instagram at @andrea4health. Let’s keep encouraging one another as we grow in mind, body, and spirit.

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