Why Companies Fail at Customer Engagement | Appcues CEO Ryan Barry | EP.22

SHOW DESCRIPTION 📩 Join the Friday Briefing (free newsletter): https://get.obeycreative.com/newsletter 🎙️ Free Podcast Planner GPT: https://get.obeycreative.com/podcastplanner    Every company insists they're customer-obsessed. Almost none of them can point to proof beyond a slide that says so.   Ryan Barry has built two companies around closing that gap. As CEO of Appcues and former CEO of Zappi, he's spent his career sitting between customers and the leadership teams trying to serve them, and he's watched most of those teams mistake activity for connection.   What he's found is both simple and uncomfortable: most B2B companies aren't losing customers because of price or product. They're losing them because nobody inside the company is actually listening and the ones who still trust last-click data over what customers plainly tell them.   In this episode of Return on Reputation, I had the chance to talk with Ryan Barry to dig into why brand and reputation, not lead generation, are the real long-term growth engine, and why the way you treat people still beats any technology advantage.   What you'll learn in this episode: Why most companies fail at customer engagement, and what actually earns trust instead How Ryan builds credibility fast walking into a company he didn't found, without leaning on "how it worked at my last company" What self-stated attribution is, and why it beats last-click marketing data every time The real reason B2B has spent years chasing MQLs while B2C has quietly figured out brand Why SDRs are the most overrated growth tactic in SaaS right now The moment Ryan realized technology is no longer a moat, and what is The one belief every company gets dead wrong about its customers What Appcues is building right now to close the loop between customer insight and action If you're a B2B leader betting everything on the next channel or tactic while your actual customers quietly decide whether to stick around, this episode is your reset. Follow Return on Reputation on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts so you don't miss an episode.   TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome & Meeting That Stuck 01:04 Why That Run Club Meeting Mattered 03:06 Doing for the Kids Payoff 03:44 Zappi to Appcues Journey 07:59 Why Customer Engagement Fails 11:06 Trust as a New CEO 15:00 How Ryan Got the Appcues Job 17:49 Books, Podcasts & Brand Building 20:43 Authenticity Over Scripted Marketing 21:36 Personal Brand Shows Up in Person 22:05 Consumer Insights Meet AI 23:41 LLMs and Attribution Shift 25:57 Emotion Is the Real Moat 27:38 Brand Beats Demand Gen 31:13 AI Hype vs Real Differentiation 32:59 Curiosity as a Career Skill 34:35 Rapid Fire Round 36:23 Appcues' Recommendation Loop 37:21 Where to Find Ryan Barry 37:30 Closing Thoughts & Baseball Life