Why Consistency Is The Most Heroic Thing A Man Can Be (with Jim Bob Haggerton)

Brotherhood Forged is a Christian men's podcast helping men grow in faith, discipline, and leadership.This week Joey and Paul sit down with Dr. Jim Bob Haggerton, chiropractor, author, marriage mentor, and a guy who's lived what feels like several lives. Jim Bob gets brutally honest about the affair that almost destroyed his marriage, the moment on a beach in Florida when God stopped him cold, and the fifteen years since spent mentoring couples through the exact wreckage he once caused. He also opens up about losing his infant son Evans to Potter syndrome, why isolation is the enemy's favorite doorway into a man's life, and the acronym (HALT) that's saved his marriage more times than he can count. If you've ever messed up bad and wondered if you could ever lead again, this one's for you.Huge thank you to Dr. Jim Bob Haggerton for his honesty and his time. Go follow him and check out his work: Instagram: @doctorjimbob Website: doctorjimbob.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drshaggertonTopics covered:Why real wisdom is just trial and error you're willing to admit toWhat to do when your wife hasn't forgiven you yet, and may never fully "come around"The little foxes that ruin a marriage: isolation, drifting, and unspoken woundsThe beach in Florida, July 4, 2012, and the moment God got his attentionWhy not one man showed up at his door during the worst season of his life"My spouse is never my problem. My spouse only reveals the problem within me."The HALT method (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) for defusing conflict with your wifeLosing his son Evans, and choosing to trust God no matter whatWhy consistency, not comebacks, is the most heroic thing a man can beHis one piece of advice for 20 year old Jim BobScripture referenced: Psalm 34:18, Song of Solomon 2:15Timestamps: 0:00 Welcome, Dr. Jim Bob Haggerton 1:47 Wisdom is just trial and error: lessons from his worst mistakes 5:12 What to tell a man whose wife hasn't forgiven him yet 13:14 Little boys playing dress up as men 16:28 The beach, July 4, 2012: the moment God got his attention 26:02 How isolation opened the door to the affair 29:04 Not one guy showed up at his door 34:57 The mantra: "My spouse is never my problem" 49:00 Losing his son Evans and learning to trust God no matter what 1:10:27 One piece of advice for 20 year old Jim Bob🔥 Brotherhood Forged: Built for Men Who Refuse to Stay StuckA coaching driven community for men who lead with strength, faith, and integrity in their homes, bodies, mindset, and legacy: weekly coaching calls, daily challenges, real accountability, and no fluff. Join at brotherhoodforged.com. Forge your identity. Lead your family. Reclaim your future.Thank you for spending this time with us. If this episode challenged you, like, subscribe, and leave a review, it helps other men find this show. Follow and download us on every platform so you never miss an episode.Newsletter: newsletter.bro4ged.com Questions or topics: [email protected] or drop a comment, we read every one.#BrotherhoodForged #ChristianMensPodcast #MarriageRestoration #TrustGod