Why Control Keeps Making Sobriety Harder

from Alive & Sober · host Reno Collier

In this episode of Alive & Sober with Reno Collier, Reno dives into the topic of control and how addiction tricks us into believing we can manage everything—only to leave us frustrated when reality proves otherwise. Reno shares personal stories, including a humorous struggle with his sock-stealing dog, to illustrate how the only thing we can truly control is our response to situations. Drawing from his experience in a 12-step program, Reno emphasizes the importance of accepting what we cannot change and focusing on living in the moment. Read: Take time to read the Bible and reflect on the line from the prayer, “the courage to change the things I can.” Reflect: Consider what areas of your life you’re trying to control and how letting go could bring more peace. Respond: Pray, asking God for clarity and the ability to respond with love, even when things are out of your hands. Reveal: Show others the power of acceptance by responding calmly in challenging situations and sharing your journey. Tune in for honest insights, practical wisdom, and encouragement to lean on God and your community in recovery. If no one told you they love you today, Reno does. Keywords: addiction recovery, sobriety, 12-step program, control, letting go, faith, Christian recovery, Reno Collier, Alive & Sober, spiritual growth, prayer, Bible reflection, acceptance, living in the moment, recovery podcast

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In this episode of Alive & Sober with Reno Collier, Reno explores the illusion of control in addiction and recovery. Sharing personal stories—including a humorous struggle with his sock-stealing dog—he highlights the importance of focusing on our own responses rather than trying to control others. Reno draws on lessons from the 12-step program and faith, encouraging listeners to embrace acceptance and live in the moment.

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