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EPISODE · Jul 17, 2026 · 1H 3M

Why Couples Lose Their Spark in Midlife And How to Bring It Back with Kimberly & Roberto of Phoenix Rising Retreats

from Together- The Sacred We · host Michael Elliott and Courtney Wren

🔥Turn your worst fights into connection!  Listening before July 20th? Mike and Courtney are teaching their Rupture & Repair framework live: https://www.thesacredwe.com/rupture-and-repairCan midlife be the most alive, connected season of your relationship — not the one where the spark fades? Kimberly and Roberto of Phoenix Rising Retreats join Mike and Courtney to reveal why couples lose intimacy in midlife, what menopause really does to eros, and how to rebuild playfulness and pleasure after 40.Chapters:0:00  Why This Conversation Matters Now1:54  Free Masterclass: Rupture & Repair (Before July 20)3:37  Meeting Kimberly & Roberto7:14  How Vulnerability Became the Turning Point12:47  The Breakup, the Ultimatum, and the Boundary That Changed Everything16:30  The 3 Real Reasons Couples Lose Their Spark18:24  From Lovers to Roommates: The Logistics Trap23:26  Menopause, Eros, and the Lie About "Over the Hill"28:42  Talking About Sex Without Shame32:58  Two Practices to Bring Back the Juiciness36:49  Healing Old Triggers Together38:11  The Secret to Real Playfulness46:15  Midlife Challenges: Ego, King Energy & Ritual55:29  Inside Phoenix Rising Retreats1:00:48  Final Reflections: Aging Is Not the EnemyWays to connect with Kimberely and Roberto: Website: www.phoenixrisingretreats.comEmail: [email protected]: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsTheir podcast: Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Coupleshttps://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/reignite-love-sex-truth-for-conscious-couples/id1489475566Connect with Courtney and Mike HERE: 👉Sign up for our couples list HERE: https://www.thesacredwe.com/thesacredwe💛 Work with Mike & Courtney 2:2 →https://www.thesacredwe.com/2-2-container-detailsWork with Mike → ⁠https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/coaching⁠📺Subscribe to our YouTube Channel → ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@thetogetherpodcast⁠🏹Join the Initiated Man →https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/TIMEmail:⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/mikeelliott.relating/https://www.instagram.com/courtneywren.relating/

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