Why Courage Matters More Than Confidence (Dr. Sharry Veres)

Many physicians are taught that when something isn’t working, the solution is simple: work harder. But what if the real breakthrough comes from recognizing that you’re climbing the wrong mountain?Dr. Sharry Veres reflects on how a failed attempt to make a volleyball team unexpectedly led her to running, a transformative coach, and lessons that continue to shape her leadership today.She shares a pivotal period after college when she felt lost working in a research lab, only to discover through honest feedback that her strengths were rooted in people, connection, and leadership rather than solitary scientific work.The conversation explores why high achievers often default to trying harder instead of questioning whether their effort is aligned with what truly fits.Dr. Veres discusses the challenge of difficult conversations and her realization that avoiding clarity can create more harm for teams than honest feedback delivered with care.She reflects on completing an MBA while leading a department and the humbling experience of confronting her own limits.Leadership isn’t about having more confidence or working harder—it’s about having the courage to face reality, provide clarity, and keep showing up willing to learn, try, and occasionally fail.