Why do I invest in scenarios too quickly?

Why do we find ourselves getting attached to scenarios more quickly than is helpful to us?  This can be an incredibly common experience for a lot of people and one that can cause us a lot of stress and of worry.  We can also feel like it’s only us that this happens to.In this episode I explore what might be going on for us when we are getting invested in situations and what we can do about this.  We also take a trip to Monte Carlo (if only!) and see what Marilyn Monroe has to say about the subject.  Here are the highlights of this episode:(1.23) Unmet needs(2.54) Defence mechanism bingo(5.12) A constant state of lack(5.52) Love bombingConnect with Julia:WebsiteLinkedInInstagramABOUT THE PODCASTThe Dynamics of Everyday Life explores the psychological patterns shaping how we think, work and relate to others; bringing psychodynamic thinking into coaching, leadership and everyday life.If you're a coach interested in learning more about psychodynamic approaches to coaching, you can explore Julia's training programmes on her website.FOLLOW THE PODCASTIf you're enjoying The Dynamics of Everyday Life, follow the podcast on your listening app so you don't miss future episodes.