“Why Do People with BPD Attach to Avoidants?” Answering your Tik Tok questions! | Ep 278

Have you ever felt completely consumed by someone who seems emotionally distant? Do you chase closeness, only to be met with withdrawal? If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone — and there’s a psychological reason for it.Let’s break it down.@01:42.88 Understanding the Players@10:29.91 The Push-Pull Dynamic@11:53.30 Why the Attraction Feels So Strong@12:41.86 Can This Dynamic Work?👉 Want to dive deeper into behavioural patterns, emotional regulation, and schema modes? Join us inside ADHD Journey — an easy-to-follow video course and community where we untangle your brain, one week at a time.🎁 Use the code ADHDVIP for 50% off your first month and get instant access to the Emotion Regulation Toolkit and Burnout Recovery Guide.🔗 visit mindfoodpsychology.comWant to build a healthy relationship with food?Book a FREE 1:1 eating evaluation call HEREBook a retreat call HERE Visit the retreat website HEREAsk StephTo access more of my courses use this LINKFREE Resources:Download my [FREE binge eating tracker tool]Experiencing burnout? Free guide here‌Psychological support:ADHD Assessment enquiryWebsite: http://www.mindfoodpsychology.comSocial media:TikTokInstagramFacebookHelp lines  Review the podcast on Apple By sharing, following, or rating the podcast, you help me reach more people so they can understand the importance of mental health. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.