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EPISODE · Jul 7, 2026 · 32 MIN

Why Do We Secretly Enjoy Watching People Fail?

from To All The Girls Out There · host Fatima

In this episode of To All The Girls Out There, we’re talking about something uncomfortable but important: why we’ve become so comfortable with hating, judging, and watching other people fail.From social media comment sections to celebrity downfall culture, we explore why someone else’s success can sometimes make us feel uncomfortable and why another person’s failure can bring a strange sense of relief.We discuss schadenfreude, the psychology behind taking pleasure in someone else’s misfortune, and unpack what’s really going on beneath comparison, jealousy, resentment, and insecurity.This episode dives into:✨ Why social media has normalised hate culture✨ The psychology of schadenfreude and comparison✨ Why other people’s success can feel triggering✨ How resentment and unresolved hurt can fuel negative reactions✨ What your triggers reveal about your desires and insecurities✨ How to shift from being a critic to becoming a supporter📚 Mentioned in this episode:Schadenfreude  (taking pleasure in the pain of another)Website👩🏽‍💻: toallthegirlsoutthere.comInstagram📷: @toallthe_girlss

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In this episode of To All The Girls Out There, we’re talking about something uncomfortable but important: why we’ve become so comfortable with hating, judging, and watching other people fail. From social media comment sections to celebrity downfall culture, we explore why someone else’s success can sometimes make us feel uncomfortable and why another person’s failure can bring a strange sense of relief. We discuss schadenfreude, the psychology behind taking pleasure in someone else’s misfortu...

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